Tuairisc Bháis: An tEaspag Dave O’Connell

Obituary: Bishop Dave O'Connell

Catholics in Southern California and around the world have recently been mourning the death of Bishop David O'Connell in Los Angeles. The bishop was known as 'The Peacemaker' and was famous for his work with poor migrant communities. He was shot dead in his sleep at his home in East Los Angeles. Home repair contractor Carlos Medina (65), who did odd jobs for the Bishop around the house, and whose wife worked as a housekeeper for the Bishop, has been accused of murdering Bishop O'Connell. Neighbors of the Bishop complained to the authorities that Carlos Medina, who had a previous drug conviction, had been behaving erratically for the past few days. After the police did some excellent detective work based on that tip, Medina was arrested on suspicion of murdering the Bishop.

The Bishop was born and raised in Glanmire in County Cork. He studied for the priesthood at All Hallows College in Dublin and was ordained in the Archdiocese of Los Angeles in 1979.

Los Angeles Archbishop José H. Gómez described the Bishop in an emotional press conference. He was trying to hold back tears as he spoke of O'Connell. "Every day Bishop O'Connell tried to show compassion for the poor, the homeless, the immigrants and all those who live on the margins of society. He was a good priest, a good bishop and a man of peace," said the Archbishop.

The Archbishop's voice began to tremble as he spoke of his friend's death and how grateful he is to the police force and the investigative team "for their hard work in bringing the murder suspect into custody".

During his career throughout Los Angeles County, O'Connell stood up to federal and local officials, and even his own leaders when he had to, on behalf of the flock he served. Even after Pope Francis appointed him bishop in 2015, O'Connell never lost touch with the ordinary people.

Peter Dreier, professor of urban politics at 'Occidental College' in Los Angeles and author of 'The Next Los Angeles: The Struggle for a Livable City,' remembered O'Connell as a community organizer who put his personal charm to work for the poor and for people who are disempowered.

“I was always very impressed with Bishop Dave and how knowledgeable he was in the matters of life. I was also impressed by his compassion, and his willingness to challenge people in power on a variety of issues, especially immigrant rights, housing justice, racism and public safety,” Dreier wrote in a Facebook post. "He saw the church as a vehicle for social justice."

Bishop Dave was the parish priest at St. Frances Xavier Cabrini Church in South Los Angeles for more than ten years and the people of the parish remember that Dave was always working for them without stopping. The news of his death shocked them and they struggled to make sense of the violent death he suffered – violence in stark contrast to the Bishop's own attitude and life.

Jarlath Cunnane, priest at St Cornelius Catholic Church on Long Beach in California, met O'Connell more than 50 years ago at All Hallows College in Dublin, while they were studying to become priests. They had a lot in common - both studied English while attending university - and Cunnane quickly realized that O'Connell was a funny, perceptive man.

The two men moved to California in the nineties, and their friendship grew deeper over the years. In 2020, when Cunnane was in hospital for several weeks with a blood infection, O'Connell visited him almost every day. Cunnane was on an oxygen machine at the time and had a terrible taste in his mouth the whole time. O'Connell gave him a kombucha drink almost every visit to reduce that taste.

“He had a great capacity for friendship," Cunnane said of O'Connell.

The two friends met for dinner recently, Cunnane said, and discussed plans to visit some parishes in the O'Connell archdiocese in the near future. His longtime friend wasn't concerned for his own safety, Cunnane said, so it came as a complete shock to him when he found out he had been shot to death. "Who on earth would ever think of doing something like this?" he asked. He is right and Bishop Dave's life has been lost senselessly - may his soul rest in eternal peace.

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Réalta Rac-cheoil na Seascaidí ar Shlí na Fírinne!

60's Rock Star Dead!

You would think that reading the obituary column is not pleasant, and I must confess that I was once of the same opinion. But after reading a few, I saw a special value in them, and then I was hooked. It is a summary of a person's life, and although not all of them are special, they are worth reading because the odd gem is to be found. It is very exciting to read such a special obituary, because you get an insight not only into the life of the deceased, but also into your own life. That is a very beneficial experience, no doubt. The singer and writer David Crosby died recently, a man who was very famous in the sixties in America and around the world. I read a lot of obituaries about him, and mostly they were just a long list of facts. But then I read the report written by Steve Chawkins in the 'Los Angeles Times' and it really hit home for me. I was laughing, I was crying, nodding my head and shaking my head, while reading the obituary. At times I almost felt like I was in the presence of the 'Croz' itself. And most powerful of all, I saw that 'Croz' lived life to the fullest, under obligation to no one on earth! But without a doubt there was a price to pay, and 'Croz' paid dearly for it! You see the strengths and weaknesses of 'Croz' clearly laid out on the table, and through that, you get a small glimpse of the human condition itself. I encourage you to read that column if you can! But in the meantime, here are just a few highlights.

A Few Highlights

Crosby and his bandmates sold 35 million records. He was twice inducted into the 'Rock & Roll Hall of Fame' — once as a member of the group 'The Byrds' and once as a member of the group 'Crosby, Stills & Nash'.

Crosby sailed around the world in a schooner called the Mayan. He was the pilot of his own plane. He had a huge ranch near Santa Barbara in California. As he got older, he was struck by a burst of creativity and released four albums and did a series of successful concerts with his son in the band CPR.

More amazing than that, he was still alive at the time! He suffered from diabetes and arterial disease, and had eight cardiac stents. When hepatitis C destroyed his liver in 1994, doctors saved his life with a transplant. He was addicted to alcohol, heroin and cocaine. He stopped after spending 11 months behind bars in Texas for drug and weapons offenses.

When asked in the 2019 documentary "David Crosby: Remember My Name" how he managed to keep going, he succinctly replied: "I have no idea, man!"

His first band 'The Byrds' fired Crosby after he insulted them badly! It was a great band, and their songs were chart toppers. 'Mr. Tambourine Man' went to the top of the charts, and the song sold a million copies at the time.

Matters quickly soured between Crosby, Stills, Nash and Young (CSNY), and they fought together for more than fifty years. He wrote in his autobiography: “I know I have an ego! Not everyone agrees on its health, size and value!”

“There was a clear dynamic between the four of us, and we've all done terrible things,” Crosby said of CSNY to Vanity Fair magazine in 2019. “But I've let them down worse than anything they've ever done to me. I was a junkie! There is no lower stage in human development than being a junkie, which I did right in front of them.”

His life came to a head in 1982 when he was accused of possessing drugs and guns. He spent nine months in prison, and then gave up drugs.

He wrote in his book 'Long Time Gone' about prison: "It was serious business: barbed wire, machine gun towers, and a huge buck with no neck wearing a cowboy hat and saying to me: Hey, rock star, get over here,boy!”

Crosby met her son James Raymond for the first time in 1994. They became great friends, they had a band together (CPR), and I think that was when Crosby finally found forgiveness and closure in his complicated life.

 

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